Therapist acceptance and understanding is crucial |
Feeling heard, accepted, and validated
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54 (20.1%) |
“Being heard (not just listened to), not judged, affirmed, accepted for who I am.”
(P65)
“Talking to someone who doesn’t judge me… and who validates my experiences.”
(P170)
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Therapist understanding of autism
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31 (11.5%) |
“Having a therapist that gets how my brain is wired differently. This allows us to better communicate.”
(P192)
“[The least helpful aspect of therapy was] not having a therapist who was really familiar with autism.”
(P211)
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Therapy offers tools for personal growth |
Importance of talking through and processing issues
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60 (22.3%) |
“Having someone to talk through my thought processes and exploring them helps.”
(P69)
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Gaining new perspectives
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30 (11.2%) |
“I find it more helpful to talk with the therapist… so I have an outside view of the situation. Sometimes I need to know how others view things to get perspective.”
(P70)
“[My therapist] helps me see issues or problems or successes that I don’t see on my own.”
(P82)
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Developing self-understanding
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15 (5.6%) |
“[The most helpful part of therapy has been] to better understand myself and why I think and act the way I do.”
(P232)
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Talking in session can be difficult |
Verbal communication expectations
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17 (6.3%) |
“[Therapists] always insist on talking. That is not the best way for me to communicate.”
(P45)
“Sometimes I have something I know I want to say, but most of the time my mind seems to go blank as soon as we sit down together.”
(P82)
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Trouble talking about feelings
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20 (7.4%) |
“The general talk about feelings [is not helpful]. I don’t experience feelings like most people and that makes this difficult and not very helpful.”
(P4)
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Session format can help or hinder progress |
Session structure affects the therapy experience
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18 (6.7%) |
“Having a clear agenda with well-defined goals [is most helpful].”
(P19)
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Alternative activities can enhance therapy
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14 (5.2%) |
“I also find it helpful if there are toys to fidget with in the office, which most places seem to have. It’s extremely grounding.”
(P106)
“Pictures [are helpful] because I am a visual learner.”
(P270)
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