1.5- and second-generation onward Arab
Americans are perceived to experience more support from within the
community when disclosing IPV compared to first-generation Arab
immigrants. |
“I feel like a big thing we have to
look at too is generations. Back when my mother was younger...when the
mom gets abused don’t say anything, stay with your
husband…but now it’s all of their children, if that man
beats you, you get the hell out. So, I feel like depending on how long
they’ve been in the country, the generation, all that plays a
huge factor.” (Stakeholder) |
Arab American women with high educational
attainment are able to seek IPV resources and leave violent intimate
partners more easily than those with low educational attainment. |
“I think that the women [who] are
more educated, she knows[s] she can go to the court and ask for divorce,
if she was educated herself and if she has self-confidence.”
(Client) |
Whether Arab American IPV
survivors can turn to family and friends for support varies. |
“I would not have reached the point
that I did…but because I was afraid of him, and afraid for my
parents well-being… I did not talk, but it reached the
point…the beatings were showing on me always.”
(Client) |
“Um, a lot of, uh families, eh,
handle it well, where they, they put out into it and they talk to the
guy and his family, but some other parents ‘oh, go back to your
husband, deal with your issues’.” (Client) |
“She complain[s] to her parent,
[but] they tell her, ‘this is your husband, no matter what, maybe
you did something to him’.” (Client) |
“A friend will play a role…I
knew someone, she confided in us so instead of her family, so we ended
up going to a social worker to help her in school, so like a, maybe like
how you said friends really help out when the…family likes to
keep it quiet.” (Stakeholder) |
Religious leaders have been
promoting IPV awareness at Islamic community centers and have advised
survivors and their families. |
“The mosques have been doing a great
job advising…in [Friday] prayer. They’ll say something
about domestic violence…” (Stakeholder) |
“From my understanding…they
go to the mosque and talk to someone there. That’s what the
majority of people do, they go to the mosque, their dad will take them
to the mosque, or their parents or somebody.” (Client) |