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. Author manuscript; available in PMC: 2025 Mar 13.
Published in final edited form as: Nurs Res. 2024 Mar 13;73(4):304–312. doi: 10.1097/NNR.0000000000000734

Table 2.

Ron’s I Poem

I think without God
It would’ve been devastating
Everything happens for a reason
It’s given me strength
***
It’s been hard
After you see both parents die with cancer
I felt so strongly about it
I actually sold cancer policies
To try to help people
***
I had 100% blockage
I’m lucky to be alive
When you say your vows
I think you should make them
For better, for richer, for sickness, and in health
If you care for somebody during the good times
You should also care for them during the rough times
***
My wife and I first got married
My aunt died with cancer
I can’t remember
We had like 3 or 4 funerals
In the first two years we were married
Still tough
When you lose family members
My father died
My mother died
Without family you don’t have anything
If you don’t have somebody to care for
Life is a whole lot tougher in my opinion
And for them to care about you also
***
We just take it one day at a time
Try to make the best of it
Pray, faith, God has a plan