Table 3.

Jane’s I-Poem

My relationship with my oldest cousin

I mean as almost as dramatically

With my mom

Changed this relationship with my cousin

I am one of the youngest cousins

I barely knew her

I always kind of had this weird impression of her

We were very, very different

I started talking to [cousin]

I had never been close

I just felt this bonding

Our relationship has just grown and grown

[cousin] came and stayed with me

I was like, “Well come sleep here”

We were having so much fun

We text all the time

We were just texting

I never would’ve had relationship without this cancer thing