Editor—A campaign against rape is needed that is based on the human rights of women in their own right rather than on their relationship to the men in their lives.
Although I am pleased to see rape on the agenda for discussion, I feel that the approach taken by MacDonald fails to reflect the reality of women's lives in the countries she mentions.1 It is useless to say that men should remember that women are their mothers, wives, and daughters when husbands, fathers, grandfathers, and brothers commit a large proportion of rape and violence against women. The family home may well be the least safe place for a woman to be. It is common in some communities for a woman to be forced into marriage with her rapist as a means of safeguarding what is regarded as the family honour.
In a study of convicted perpetrators of child sexual abuse in London, 57% of the female victims were abused by relatives or within the home.2 Of the perpetrators, 15.5% sexually abused their natural daughters, 10.5% sexually abused their stepdaughters, and 10% abused other female relatives. In a study of rape conducted in London by questionnaire, of 694 woman who completed the questionnaire, 11% reported being raped by a family member, 10% by a boyfriend or former boyfriend, and 5% by a family friend.3 Women must be free to take charge of their own lives and to choose their place of work without discrimination and, if they wish to marry, to choose their own marriage partners. Until this happens a woman will be perceived as the property of a male and her value will be judged by her virginity or her chastity. Until society eschews all violence against women and grants them the same rights as men to education, work, and personal freedom, women will be raped twice—the first time by their assailant and the second time by the legal system that tries the case.
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