Table 3 Frequencies and percentages of self‐reported responses to both victimisation and perpetration questions of intimate partner violence any time in the previous 12 months for mothers (n = 893) and fathers (n = 691) separately, together with a measure of agreement (κ) and test of symmetry (McNemar's p Value).

	Both a victim and a perpetrator	Victim but not a perpetrator	Perpetrator but not a victim	Neither a victim nor a perpetrator	κ	McNemar's p Value
Mother
Verbal aggression	764 (86)	7 (1)	52 (6)	70 (8)	0.67	<0.001
Any physical violence	220 (25)	30 (3)	108 (12)	535 (60)	0.65	<0.001
Severe physical violence	106 (12)	30 (3)	69 (8)	688 (77)	0.62	<0.001
Father
Verbal aggression	595 (87)	3 (0)	27 (4)	66 (10)	0.79	<0.001
Any physical violence	47 (7)	6 (1)	27 (4)	611 (88)	0.71	<0.001
Severe physical violence	15 (2)	6 (1)	9 (1)	661 (96)	0.66	0.44

Values are n (%).