TABLE 2:

Important actions to take during and after the death of a baby

Assure parents that it is normal to feel uncomfortable at this time

Allow parents to spend as much time as they need with their baby

Make repeated offers for holding the baby

Name the baby

Provide privacy, but do not abandon the parents

Encourage relatives and friends to see the baby, according to the parents’ wishes

Warn about gasping and muscle contractions

Reassure parents that their baby was not alone, not afraid and not in pain at the time of death

Reassure parents that nothing more could be done

Provide mementos to create memories

Ensure that spiritual support is available

Take pictures

Explain the need and procedure for an autopsy

Explain options and procedures for memorial services