Mothers who missed out on specific activities (n = 34) |
School and extracurricular activities |
47 |
53 |
50 |
25 |
0 |
“The school was far away, sometimes I didn’t have the energy…I didn’t go to the meetings…the teachers would call me” |
Going places |
42 |
53 |
21 |
50 |
50 |
“When a certain time of day comes, I can’t do anything. So when my son wants to go to the movies…I can’t take him…I couldn’t do many things” |
Daily care |
35 |
27 |
36 |
50 |
50 |
“You feel useless. You cannot cook for your kids, take care of them” |
Active, leisure time play |
18 |
27 |
7 |
0 |
50 |
“There was a lot of things. I think a lot of it had to do with just being able to go out and experience a lot of physical things” |
Reasons for missing activities (n = 34) |
Poor physical health |
94 |
87 |
100 |
100 |
100 |
“I was so sick so it was hard taking care of him” |
Poor mental health |
26 |
33 |
15 |
50 |
33 |
“I’d rather sit home and do nothing in my depression than get out of it and let him have more of a normal childhood” |
Stigma/secrecy |
12 |
7 |
15 |
0 |
50 |
“I wanted to hide…I was very ashamed” |
Reasons for not missing activities (n = 23) |
Good physical health |
78 |
92 |
71 |
0 |
50 |
“I pretty much haven’t been ill during their whole life” |
HIV as motivator to do “more” |
17 |
8 |
14 |
0 |
50 |
“I think it caused us [to do] more” |
“Powering through” limitations |
17 |
17 |
29 |
0 |
0 |
“I just push myself and just go and catch up with rest later” |