Practical help with routine activities |
Milked cows, prepared fishes |
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Cleaned and strained rice |
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“Brought water from tubewell for cooking in big pots” |
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Fed other children |
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Washed clothes |
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Went to market when husband not in the home |
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Helped with heavy work during harvest season, husking paddy |
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Made fire for cooking |
Information and advice |
“Do not go to roof to hang clothes” |
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“When ill, take rest” |
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“Give prayer five times a day” |
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“Take food properly” |
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“Do not work with cold water” |
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“Do not stay in field at night because of evil spirits” |
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“Keep a match with you when you go out at night” |
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“Call husband to do heavy work” |
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“Abide by father-in-law and mother-in-law, words they say” |
Emotional support and assurance |
“Do not worry” “Chinta koro na”
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Inquired about how she is feeling |
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“Do not be tense” |
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Gossiped |
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“If you have a problem, I will go with you to facility” |
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Talked with her when she feels unsure |
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Massaged body with mustard oil |
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Tell me if you have any physical problems, inform of discomfort or changes |
Monetary and material goods |
Paid for urine test to confirm pregnancy |
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Bought and delivered medications |
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Paid rickshaw fare to clinic |
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Paid costs for antenatal care |
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Paid kobiraj for amulets and rituals |
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Saved money in case of complication |
Logistic communication |
Went out to locate dai
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Informed others in household of pregnancy and labour pains |
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Phoned mother to come to marital home when labour started |
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Went to find rickshaw-puller or country boatman |
Prayer and spiritual rituals |
Gave holy blow and gave blessed water |
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Brought amulets from kobiraj
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Brought blessed molasses to increase labour pains |
Nutritional support |
Gave milk and tea during labour pains |
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Brought special foods, such as grapes and guavas, from bazzar upon request |
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Made foods she likes when sick |
Accompaniment |
Accompanied and assisted with bathing in pond |
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Accompanied at night to latrine |
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Accompanied to facility or met at facility |
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Stayed at facility during labour |