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Maybe if I had a different kind of cancer I would choose D or E.
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Maybe D or E [passive role] would be acceptable if there was an imminent threat or immediate need to make a decision, but that’s not my situation.
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E would only happen “if you really didn’t have choices.”
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Multiple doctors: |
I try to interpret words as they are written, and the question here is which doctor?
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[Specialists are] like housepainters, each one wants you to do business with them--you can brush paint your house or spray paint your house.
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Pressure to assume “active” role (response A or B) |
C [shared role] is not relevant because the docs didn’t try to share the decision with me.
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It would be a perfect world if D were possible, but D and E [passive role] would never occur.
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I would have had to go out of my way to find a doctor who would make the decision for me.
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“My surgeons were adamant that I make the final decision.”
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Unclear who does what in “shared” role (response C) |
C is the same as B.
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[C] is just in the middle of [A and E] but I wouldn’t pick it. Someone has to make the final decision or you’re just hanging out in limbo.
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I can’t see how you could share responsibility. Either I give him authority or I don’t. What would that look like? The doctor can’t take half the responsibility if the treatment goes wrong. [C] is not a realistic scenario.
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Where does the responsibility lie if it’s the wrong decision?
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Either I give him authority or I don’t.
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