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. 2012 Feb 22;10:22. doi: 10.1186/1477-7525-10-22

Table 3.

Items Caregivers Reported Feeling Uncomfortable Answering

Item Number of Caregivers Expressing Difficulty Answering Item/Number of Caregivers Answering Item Selected Caregiver Quotes
Asthma Impact Items

My child's chest felt tight because of asthma. 2/5 "...she has never said anything directly to me so I had to guess"

My child got tired easily because of his/her asthma. 1/5 " I don't see her at school when she would be running around"

My child's body felt bad when he/she was out of breath. 1/5 " I don't know how his body felt, son didn't tell me how his body felt."

Emotional Distress Items

My child worried about what could happen to him/her. 2/5 "My child doesn't always share his emotions with me."

My child got scared really easily. 1/5 "It is harder to ascertain my child's feelings"

My child felt alone. 1/5 "This was hard to answer because if she didn't tell me I wouldn't know."

My child was worried when he/she was away from home. 2/5 "It's not so much the wording it's that you're asking me to report something that I don't know"

Being sad made it hard for my child to do things with friends. 1/5 "I couldn't relate to questions about my child's feelings because I have no idea."

Fatigue Items

My child was so tired it was hard for him/her to pay attention. 1/5 " I just answered to the best I could. I'm not always there when she would need to pay attention like at school"

Pain Items

It was hard for my child to think when he/she had pain. 2/5 "I cannot measure/gage if he can think when he has pain as he may not tell me"

It was hard for my child to remember things when he/she had pain. 1/5 "I don't know what he's thinking when he has pain."

Social Role Relationship Items

My child was good at making friends. 2/5 "The friends piece comes at school and I'm not there"

It was hard for my child to make friends. 2/5 "I have no idea about things that occur at school or after- school that I can't see. These are questions about things that I haven't seen with my own eyes."

Other kids teased my child. 1/5 "I'm not at school to see this"

Other kids did not want to be my child's friend. 2/5 "These are things that are internal that I can't see as a parent"

Other kids bullied my child. 1/5 "... if he doesn't talk about it or I don't see it happen... then I don't know""

My child was good at making friends. 2/5 "Anything that I'm able to observe is a lot easier to answer (vs. questions about how my child feels)."

My child felt accepted by other kids his/her age. 1/5 "I don't have a gauge to know how he felt. I have to guess"

Other kids did not want to be my child's friends. 2/5 "Some questions were harder due to difficulty knowing how to answer on behalf of child's experience "

My child was able to have fun with his/her friends. 1/5 "this question was a little harder-I had to think about whether she had fun since I'm not always with her"

My child was able to count on his/her friends. 1/5 "I had to think again about what she has told me."

My child treated other kids his/her age with respect. 1/5 "This was a little harder to answer- because I'm not around her when she's around other kids."

Other kids did not like my child. 1/5 "This was harder to answer because I am not around my child at school."

My child felt nervous when he/she was with other kids the same age. 2/5 "I'm not sure what she is like when she is around other kids."

Other kids wanted to be with my child. 2/5 "This is hard to answer because I'm not around her during the school day."

Other kids wanted to be my child's friend 1/5 "With an older teenager it's a little more difficult to know."

Other kids were mean to my child. 1/5 "It depends on whether the child tells the parents or if I observed it directly."

My child teased other kids. 1/5 "It was impossible to know about other kids since I wasn't there."

My child played alone and kept to himself/herself. 1/5 "I thought of it as "at our house". Because in school, Sunday school, etc. I do not have the foggiest idea."