Decision to have sex |
Chemistry and physical appearance |
- There has to be some chemistry there or it’s [sex] not going to happen. |
Relationship length and stability |
- I have to be in a relationship, and I have to know them like… two to three months. |
Sexual history |
- If I know that you mess around with nasty people that could possibly have something, like that, definitely a no. |
Substance use |
- If my partner’s been drinking or anything like that, I’d tell them before we start drinking, ‘we ain’t sleeping together tonight or whatever.’ |
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Decision to use condoms |
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Unknown sexual history |
- I use a condom with everyone I have sex with and I don’t know if he’s hav[ing] sex with other people or not. |
Availability |
- We don’t use protection … and it’s really hard to find [them]. We’ve looked everywhere. And we just can’t find it [condoms] … even when we knew we were both clean we wanted to use protection but… [never did]. |
Pregnancy and STI Prevention |
- Not trying to get pregnant anymore, and not trying to catch anything. |
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Safe sex practices |
Do not discuss safe sex |
- Yah-yah if you use a condom, you use a condom. You know that’s just how it is… but we don’t talk [about it]. |
Discuss safe sex |
- They [network members] pound it in[to] my head a lot, especially Danny. ‘Always use protection.’ |