1 Parenting Styles
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Parents
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Parents will:
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Parents will:
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· Recognize their own parenting style.
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· Review a video on parenting styles and discuss.
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· Distinguish the key elements of the positive parenting style.
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· Self-assess their parenting styles and discuss in small groups.
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2 Between Multiple Worlds
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Parents
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Parents will:
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Parents will:
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· Recognize that their strong family orientation as Latino parents protects against youth risk behavior.
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· Identify their own cultural values as parents and compare/contrast with those of school and youth.
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· Understand that their youth must navigate between family, school, and peer cultures.
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· Self-assess their own and their youth’s cultural orientation and reflect on differences.
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· Learn skills to help their youth navigate across cultures.
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3 Adolescent Development
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Parents
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Parents will:
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Parents will:
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· Review normal adolescent development and the need to adapt parenting strategies to developmental stages.
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· Compare the behaviors of their youth with previous years.
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· Contextualize challenging behavior within tasks of adolescent development.
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· Reflect on why adolescents challenge parents and how not to ‘take it personally’.
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4 Communication
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Parents and youth
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Parents will:
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Parents will:
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· Understand how strong communication fits with the values of respect for authority and confianza (trusting relationships).
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· Practice active listening.
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· Discuss barriers and facilitators to conversations with youth.
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· Learn basic principles of good communication and develop communication skills.
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· Practice communication using ‘I’ messages.
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Youth will:
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Youth will:
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· Recognize the importance of communication with parents.
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· Play the broken phone and identify barriers in communication.
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· Learn specific communication skills.
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· Practice when and how to talk and listen.
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· Practice ‘I’ messages.
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5 Discipline
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Parents
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Parents will:
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Parents will:
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· Learn the importance of positive behavioral reinforcement.
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· Identify strategies to encourage positive behavior in their youth.
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· Understand the importance of establishing negotiable and non-negotiable rules, and establishing and reinforcing consequences.
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· Practice developing negotiable and non-negotiable rules for their family.
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6 Conflict resolution
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Parents and youth
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Parents will:
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Parents will:
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· Understand that conflict is part of the normal developmental process, and does not need to damage their relationships.
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· Identify positive and negative aspects of conflicts.
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· Identify collaborative problem-solving and conflict resolution strategies.
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· Discuss and role-play a strategy to solve problems with their youth.
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· Learn to recognize and self-regulate emotions.
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· Develop strategies to manage anger.
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Youth will:
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Youth will:
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· Learn collaborative problem-solving strategies.
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· Talk about rules, consequences and mistakes.
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· Identify strategies to recognize and manage emotions.
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· Talk about emotions and their consequences.
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· Name the steps to effectively solve problems.
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7 Supervision and Friends’ Influence
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Parents and youth
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Parents will:
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Parents will:
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· Understand the meaning and importance of monitoring.
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· Discuss scenarios to differentiate supervision from over-control.
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· Learn strategies to monitor their youth effectively at each developmental stage of adolescence.
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· Role-play initiating conversations with parents of their children’s friends.
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Youth will:
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Youth will:
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· Identify dreams that they want to achieve.
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· Develop a collage to help visualize dreams and goals.
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· Identify influences and behavior (including substance use) that may get in the way of achieving dreams.
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· Practice strategies to refuse risky behaviors.
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· Learn strategies to avoid problem behaviors.
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8 Connection |
Parents and youth |
Parents will:
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Parents will:
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· Understand that parent–youth connection is the foundation for parenting, and recognize barriers to relationship-building.
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· Engage in activity around setting kids as priority for time.
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· Identify strategies to strengthen their relationship with their youth.
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· Write a letter to their children expressing their love and expectations.
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Youth will:
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Youth will:
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· Reflect on the importance of a strong parent–youth relation.
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· Complete a map of personal connections.
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· Identify parents and other adults as a support network. |
· Write a message to their parents expressing their thankfulness. |