Table 2.
Main topic chosen for discussion by all study participants (N = 169 sessions)
Topic chosen | Specific issues client raised | Number choosing topic N (%) N = 169 sessions |
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Condom use | How to use condoms | 50 (30%) |
Overcoming barriers to condom use (e.g., keeping them nearby, buying them ahead of time, using lubrication to increase sensation) |
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Condoms make people feel dirty | ||
People like to “feel” their partner | ||
Heat of the moment | ||
Alcohol/other drug use | Discussion of how drugs and alcohol impede safer sex practices |
27 (16%) |
Keeping self and others safe from re-infection and STI’s (usually among concordant couples or partners of unknown status) |
Keeping self-safe from STIs | 24 (14%) |
Keeping one’s partner safe from STI’s | ||
Re-infection | ||
Risk of resistance | ||
Could make one-another sicker | ||
Karma | ||
Relationships | Everyone wants someone | 23 (13.5%) |
Maintaining boundaries | Not just sex, dinner, movie | |
Time invested in relationship | ||
Future relationships | Love | |
Feeling safe in relationships | Likes security of relationship | |
Remaining monogamous | If did not have relationship would probably “be on streets” |
|
Does not want to be alone | ||
Communication with partner | How to say “no” | |
Maintaining relationship | Asking for what one wants out of partner | |
Keeping partner negative | Love for partner | 17 (10%) |
Partner has stood by them | ||
Do not want partner to go through what they have | ||
Disclosure | Self-care | 8 (4.5%) |
Alternate ways to be intimate (not here) | ||
Disclosure of serostatus to partners | ||
Self-esteem issues | ||
Re-disclosure | ||
Stigma | ||
Ignorance | ||
They have a right to know what they are getting into | ||
Self-care includes | Wanting to stay on same medication | 6 (3.5%) |
Learning to say no Taking time for self Taking meds |
If no time for self then may use AOD then will not practice safer sex |
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Risk assessment | Pt. did not pick topic | 6 (3.5%) |
Alternate ways to be intimate | Pt. unable to engage in certain sexual acts because of health issues |
4 (2%) |
Fear alternate ways will not please partner | ||
Desire to please partner | ||
Fear of harming partner | ||
Worries about getting a STI | Does not want another STI | 3 (2%) |
HIV only STI | ||
Another STI could make HIV worse | ||
STI’s make people look sick | ||
Patient update | Pt. in and out of hospital, extremely ill. Not appropriate to discuss sex; fear of ruining relationship with pt. did discuss later |
1 (0.5%) |