1. They believe that a woman who marries but does not have a baby is not a mature adult |
2. They believe that people who have children are happy and that people who do not have children are unhappy |
3. They have feelings of guilt that they have killed their own fetuses in uteri |
4. They are afraid of both getting pregnant and of not getting pregnant |
5. They are beleaguered with anxiety about the future and about how long their present situation will last |
6. They are uncertain if each action in their daily life is good or bad for their next pregnancy |
7. They miss many opportunities to enjoy themselves because they avoid places where there are many children and their parents, and participating in events where many mothers will be present |
8. They avoid gatherings of relatives during the summer holidays or New Year holidays, or gatherings of peers such as class reunions |
9. They and their spouses are likely to overlook women’s fatigue and exhaustion |
10. Not many women understand that their idea and their husband’s idea are not the same regarding having a baby |