Esteem
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Gives positive comments validating a recipient’s self-concept, alleviating feelings of guilt as a person; includes compliments, validation, and relief from blame [36] |
Congratulations on your sobriety!
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Compliment |
Conveys positive assessment toward someone or emphasizes the recipient’s skills and abilities |
Thanks x. This is a great journal entry. Thanks for the laughs. I really needed it. My favorite one is #16.
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Good Job! I’m sooooo proud of you =0) :o) =)
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Validation |
Recognizes need by expressing agreement with the recipient’s perspective on the situation |
X, no need to apologize its a great post especially when it comes from your heart <3
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Relief of blame |
Tries to alleviate the recipient’s feelings of guilt about the situation |
Its not your fault
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Don’t blame yourself
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Network
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Focuses on messages to broaden support seekers’ social network so they don’t feel alone, by connecting them to others with similar situations; includes access, presence, and companions [36] |
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Access |
Invites new members to join conversations or offered to connect members with others having similar interests |
Well, I guess I wasn’t much help, but I appreciate the input, and it’s good to know you’re not alone. Thank you x. Maybe we can help each other.
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Presence |
Offers to spend time with the person, to be there in time of need |
...well my dear...please stay in touch with us here...we do care what happens to u!:)
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Companions |
Reminds the person of availability of companions, of others who are similar in interests or experience |
Just reach out and I will be there ok?
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Emotional
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Gives expressions that support recipient’s feelings or reciprocates emotion; the emphasis of this category is on supporting emotional states rather than the recipient’s identity or self-concept [36,46] |
You’re going through a rough time
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Hang in there hon.
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Relationship |
Stresses the importance of closeness and love in relationships the recipient has with others |
I have missed this forum SO much! Finally back from crazy land and look forward to seeing all those familiar names comment on the questions.
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Physical affection |
Offers physical contact, including hugs, kisses, hand-holding, shoulder patting; obviously, physical affection could not be given online, but it was often offered and conveyed verbally |
You deserve a big bear hug!
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Confidentiality |
Promises to keep the recipient’s problem in confidence; confidentiality is typically symbolic [28] |
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Sympathy |
Expresses sorrow or regret |
Sorry it had to happen to you.
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Listening |
Provides attentive comments as the recipient speaks |
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Understanding and empathy |
Expresses understanding of the situation or discloses a personal situation that communicates similarity of one person’s experiences with another’s |
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Encouragement |
Provides messages of hope or confidence |
Hang in there!
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Prayers |
In spiritual words, mentions praying, spiritual healing, or God |
I will keep you in my prayers. |