Table 1. Helpful acronyms related to conflict management14 16 .
VALUED conflict model |
Validate |
Ask (open-ended questions) |
Listen (to test assumptions) |
Uncover interests |
Explore options |
Decide (on solutions) |
Four main listening skills |
Ask |
Mirroring |
Paraphrasing |
Prime |
TSA's four R's of conflict management |
Recognize |
Respond with Respect |
Resolve and manage |
Reflect |