I have learnt of many good ideas and so on, and also talked with others
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Recognising oneself in other girls
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Finding a social oasis to challenge gendered expectations
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Being confirmed in a non-judging and supportive atmosphere
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Not being alone
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Before, I only focused on just one thing, but now I have been able to see that, yes, but perhaps it is this and this too, and then it’s somehow easier to deal with it
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It is not my fault
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Seeing causes and connections
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Making space for reflections on gender and stress
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It’s like a fear of failure and not being good enough, which is very typical for many girls
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Feeling pressures and inequalities (as girls)
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Reduced symptoms
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Being bodily empowered
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I listen more to how my body feels. My body reacts directly if it becomes difficult
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Listening and understanding bodily signals
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Approaching the problematic body
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I have a better relationship to my body now
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Feeling trust and being conscious of the body
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Finding breathing space
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It is, as you are stopping, a very concrete stop and like really relax on the floor and try to drop all these thoughts
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Time for silence and reflection
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Upgrading oneself and one’s abilities
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Valuing oneself
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Like, you have come to realise that everyone else is not better
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Thinking more positively
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I have stopped seeing problems that do not exist
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Slowing down the pace and prioritising needs
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Switching pace in life
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I have more energy to do more things, but at the same time I have not quite that many things to do any longer
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Releasing energy and decreasing demands
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Altering gendered positions and stance to life
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It’s really important to stay away from all that and try not to compete. You cannot be coolest, not be prettiest, or never be the best at everything |
Managing and resisting (social/gendered) expectations |
Setting limits and resisting outer pressure |
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