Man #2:	The problem is when you are proposing a girl, she does not tell you that she has the virus.
Man ?:	But together, you can make the decision of going for testing at that particular time.
Man #4:	It just goes wrong in the beginning because you did not take each other for testing.
Man #7:	Because we can think of the woman as being a bitch [cheater] when she is not. The problem is really based in the beginning when you did not go for HIV testing. (FGD #4, married men, age 20–24)