Table 3.
Main source of the support |
n=236 n (%) |
Healing elements | Examples |
---|---|---|---|
Own family and close relatives | 134 (56.8) | • Intimacy • Love |
• Intimacy and speaking about normal daily life issues • Mother and her genuine concern and love • I have the best dad in the world |
Friends and fellow-students | 127 (53.8) | • Peer support • Understanding because of similar experience |
• It is easiest to talk to the close persons you can trust • Just being close, total presence, and feeling of understanding without words |
Teachers and other school staff | 14 (5.9) | • Togetherness • Understanding because of similar experience |
• The best help comes from people who had experienced the same tragedy • We feel attached to our school, and that helps us |
Crisis psychologists, psychiatrists, and other professionals | 61 (25.8) | • Sharing the story • Professionalism • Psychoeducation • Therapeutic interventions • Enhancing safety |
• Sessions with the psychiatrist consisted of real listening and deep understanding, not only of being together • The crisis psychologist listened, supported, and forwarded to the medical doctor • Crisis workers provided information about how to cope and how to deal with normal daily life issues and what helps you to continue your life • The groups in which we were together, that was a decisive experience in recovery • The awareness that there are crises workers available if needed, that has helped me |
Church and parish | 6 (2.5) | • Spiritual consolation | • My own parish and belonging to it, I was allowed to share and leave my worries to God |
None or I cannot say | 18 (7.6) | • I know that there was all kind of help available. But I did not have time to go, and also the strangeness of others does not help |
Note: The percentages do not sum up to 100.0 because students mentioned more than one source of support and reasons as healing elements.