Table 3.
Example Social Phobia Exposure Exercises
Session 3 | |
BEFORE exposure: | |
Goal: | Express a professional opinion to a coworker (4x over the course of the week) |
What are you most worried will happen? | Coworker will stare at me contemptuously and walk away without responding |
On scale 0–100, how likely does this seem? | 95% |
AFTER exposure: | |
Did what you were most worried about occur? Y or N | No |
How do you know? | Coworker responded immediately, agreed with my opinion, and we continued talking |
What did you learn? | Coworkers do not always disregard my opinions |
Session 4 | |
BEFORE exposure: | |
Goal: | Predicting outcomes of sporting events to people at the local gym and bar (no alcohol) |
What are you most worried will happen? | People will look at me scornfully (furrowed brows and squinted eyes) and turn away |
On scale 0–100, how likely does this seem? | 80% |
AFTER exposure: | |
Did what you were most worried about occur? Y or N | No |
How do you know? | People responded with their own predictions. They did not appear scornful. |
What did you learn? | Strangers won’t necessarily reject my conversation. |
Session 9 | |
BEFORE exposure: | |
Goal: | Ride elevator at the local mall for 30 minutes calling out the names of the floors in a loud voice (4x over the course of the week) |
What are you most worried will happen? | People will look angrily at me, I will feel humiliated, and I will cry and leave the elevator. |
On scale 0–100, how likely does this seem? | 90% |
AFTER exposure: | |
Did what you were most worried about occur? Y or N | No |
How do you know? | I got more puzzled looks than angry ones. I DID feel humiliated, but I did not cry and I was able to remain in the elevator for 30 minutes. |
What did you learn? | Even when I feel humiliated, it’s a temporary state, and I can ultimately tolerate it. |