Table 4.
Sub-domain | Direct quote |
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Impact on relationships domain | |
Loss of traditional parenthood | |
Concern over transmission to offspring | I worry about them (kids) getting cancer because of me but I just pray. I pray a lot Oh yes of course I’m worried about my future kids getting cancer. My mind goes to do I really wanna have kids; do I wanna put them through this… |
Concern family will resent limited physical functioning | I just have this guilt that I shouldn’t carry I know but I would fear that my kids and husband would get tired of me always having health issues Whenever I have a bad migraine I think, what are you going to do if you have a kid? They won’t get the attention they need and end up hating me |
Concern over fertility status | I’m 27 and still don’t have a kid. It’s embarrassing to me somewhat. As soon as I got out of the hospital I had questions but they said you’re fine, I still wonder though I’m afraid to say I do want to have babies because I’m going to become obsessed with it, but because it’s not something I can control it’ll tear my marriage apart if I can’t |