TABLE 1—
Examples of Men’s Objectifying and Egalitarian Statements Friends Use to Describe Women: Wayne, Oakland, and Macomb counties, MI; 2008–2009
Category/Construct | Illustrative Quotes |
Objectifying | |
Degrading | “I would tear that up.” |
“Bro, I hit that last night!” | |
Sexual focus on appearance | “She’s got a nice rack.” |
“How’s that ass look?” | |
Sexually stereotypical behaviors | “She’s a gold-digger.” |
“Women are liars.” | |
Stories of sexual experiences | “She gave good head.” |
“Many times the conversations will be about different things we have done sexually to girls.” | |
References to women’s alcohol or drug use and sex | “We would talk about girls we wanted to invite to the bar because we knew that there was a chance of something sexual happening after the bar.” |
“She likes to party.” | |
Swearing | “I'd fuck her.” |
“I bet she has some nice pussy.” | |
Other negative attitudes about women | “She's really intelligent (saying this as we make motions referring to her chest).” |
“Who has she been with?” | |
Egalitarian | |
Woman’s job or career | “She has a good job.” |
“She makes way more money than you.” | |
Intelligence | “Where she went to college.” |
“She’s really smart.” | |
Personality | “She is fun to be around or a funny person.” |
“She had good conversation.” | |
Emotional connection | “It is actually exclusively about emotional, intellectual, or social attraction.” |
“If we are both still happy.” | |
Nonsexual descriptions of appearance | “She's really pretty.” |
“She is beautiful.” | |
Other egalitarian attitudes about women | “What kind of relationship she has with her family and friends.” |
“Overall, my friends are very respectful to women and would not use derogatory comments.” |
Note. Coders counted the number of objectifying and egalitarian phrases each participant provided. Constructs and definitions were given in a codebook as guidance for each category.