Table 2.
Primary targets and goals DECREASE severe behavioural over-control, emotional loneliness and aloofness/distance INCREASE openness, flexibility, prosocial signalling and vulnerable expression of emotion | |
Treatment target hierarchy for over-control | |
1. Life-threatening behaviours |
Suicidal ideation and non-suicidal self-injury Over-controlled self-injurious behaviour tends to be planned in advance, occurs in private and rarely requires immediate medical attention |
2. Therapeutic alliance ruptures |
Patient feels misunderstood or perceives therapy as not relevant to their problems Signals of non-engagement by over-controlled patients tend to be understated, for example saying “hmm”, “maybe” or “I guess so” when disagreeing, or by avoiding eye contact or changing the topic when feeling misunderstood |
3. Over-controlled Behavioural themes |
Constrained expressions of emotion Over-controlled patients tend to display inhibited, flattened or insincere facial expressions (eg, smiling when distressed, showing concern when not feeling it), have a monotonic voice tone and tight and non-expansive gestures or body movements. They will work hard to avoid public displays of emotion Overly cautious and hyper-vigilant Over-controlled patients are not necessarily avoidant but guarded, wary and suspicious. They exhibit superior detailed-focused processing Rigid and rule-governed behaviours The actions of over-controlled patients tend to be non-mood dependent and instead follow certain self-imposed rules. They are motivated by social obligation and exhibit high moral certitude; they often make self-sacrifices to care for others or to do the ‘right’ thing. They tend to be hyper-perfectionistic and have compulsive needs for order and structure Aloof and distant relationships Over-controlled patients do not necessarily lack contact but lack social connectedness with others. They are slow to warm-up and will walk away or abandon a relationship when in conflict. They are likely to feel like an outsider, different or detached from others Envy, Resentment, Bitterness and Revenge Over-controlled patients tend to be performance-focused, engage in social comparisons, are secretly competitive, tend to hold grudges and may have secret pride in superior capacities for self-control. They may take pleasure in a rival failing or feel unappreciated for personal self-sacrifices or efforts on their part to meet or exceed expectations |
Targets higher in the treatment hierarchy take priority over lower ones. Thus, life-threatening behaviors and therapeutic alliance-ruptures take precedence over behavioral themes when these are present. Therapists use the behavioral themes to facilitate treatment planning.