Positive Behaviors
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Showing affection |
“I love you; I really do.”
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Showing gratitude |
“Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. You helped me a lot!”
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Offering praise, making compliments |
“You're learning a lot. You are doing great!”
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Showing sympathy, empathy, concern |
“I don't know why she did such hurtful things to you.”
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Offering help, support |
“Can I carry that for you?”
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Apologizing |
“I am so sorry; I didn't mean to make you look bad.”
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Expressing hope, showing optimism |
“I really want to be proactive about that. It'll be great.”
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Negative Behaviors
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Being sarcastic |
“You want my lemonade?? Sure! After you drank the whole thing!”
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Bragging |
“My dad's car collection is so large he had to build a new garage.”
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Being condescending or arrogant |
“How did you get so retarded? Oh, yes. I know what it means.”
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Complaining or whining |
“You make it so difficult!”
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Criticizing |
“Then get off your butt and fix them lunch.”
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Blaming |
“I came to see you and you were gone! You made me wait an hour!”
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Expressing pessimism |
“I doubt this medication will help.”
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