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. Author manuscript; available in PMC: 2016 May 2.
Published in final edited form as: J Marriage Fam. 2013 Mar 14;75(2):453–469. doi: 10.1111/jomf.12003

Table 2.

Defining characteristics of different types of marriage.

Love Marriage and
Elopement
Arranged Marriage Arranged Love Marriage
Couple meets on their own Boy’s family approaches
girl’s family
Couple meets on their own
Love develops before
marriage
Love expected to develop
after marriage
Love develops before
marriage
Couple choose each other
without parents’ consent
Family members choose
spouse, but couple consents
Couple choose each other, but
get parents’ consent
Couple may be different
castes and religions
Couple must be the same
caste and religion
Couple must be the same caste and religion
Couple elopes without
parents’ knowledge
Couple participates in
engagement ceremony
Couple participates in engagement ceremony
Couple begins cohabiting
without a wedding ceremony
Families exchange gifts and
engage in other caste specific
traditions surrounding the wedding
Families exchange gifts and
engage in other caste specific
traditions surrounding the wedding
Couple is formally married
after cohabiting
Couple is formally married
before cohabiting
Couple is formally married
before cohabiting