Joy |
The purpose of the joy intervention was to cultivate happiness through positive communication with family members. |
Activity 1: participants were encouraged to share and reminisce about their happy experiences with family members and create more happy experiences by enjoying a meal together.Activity 2: each family member wrote down the things that are most commonly said and heard at home and discussed how the negative messages can be rephrased.Homework 1: share a happy experience during family dinner every day and keep a daily diary of the sharing.Homework 2: avoid the negative communication style at home. |
Gratitude |
The gratitude intervention was intended to nurture a habit of expressing gratitude and appreciation toward family members, especially for the preparation of family meals. |
Activity: participants discussed about their family members’ contribution to family meals and other chores and expressed appreciation through words or action.Homework: write down gratifying and praiseful messages toward family members and store them in a collection box for sharing. |
Flow |
In the flow intervention, the goal was to identify each other’s strengths, increase interaction, and encourage mutual cooperation. |
Activity: participants learned to prepare a family meal together, and through this process, learned to cooperate and recognize each other’s strengths.Homework: take photos of family gatherings to keep a record of events that involved the contribution of each family member. |
Savoring |
In the savoring intervention, the goal was to nurture a habit of savoring food prepared by family members and treasuring the time during family meals. |
Activity 1: blindfolded participants were spoon-fed by their family member and were asked to guess what was fed to them to emphasize the importance of savoring and communication.Activity 2: participants were asked to guess the ingredients of several specified dishes and were explained the importance of savoring and respect during family meals.Homework 1: keep a record of family meals that start and end together.Homework 2: take time to learn family recipes from a family member who cooks regularly so that his or her efforts are understood. |
Listening |
The listening intervention focused on active listening skills so that family members’ feelings, emotions, and concerns can be understood. |
Activity 1: participants played a game that involved matching emotion adjectives so that they can better express and respond to emotions during family meals.Activity 2: participants took turns to read a hypothetical passage that described their emotions of the day, and their family members were instructed to respond appropriately by considering their thoughts, feelings, and concerns.Homework 1: keep a diary that records the emotions of family members every day.Homework 2: practice active listening every day. |