Table 2. Counts and percentages of participants reporting the use of certain regulation strategies in the context of long-term relationships.
Study 1 (n = 32) | Study 2 | |||||
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Relationship group (n = 20) | Break-up group (n = 20) | |||||
Strategy | Maintain long-term relationship | Prevent love decline | Maintain long-term relationship | Prevent love decline | Maintain long-term relationship | Prevent love decline |
Reappraisal: Focus on positive aspects of beloved/relationship | 2 (6%) | 3 (9%) | 0 | 1 (5%) | 0 | 4 (20%) |
Reappraisal: Think of positive future scenarios | 3 (9%) | 1 (3%) | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1 (5%) |
Communication/honesty | 13 (41%) | 4 (13%) | 9 (45%) | 2 (10%) | 10 (50%) | 4 (20%) |
Trust | 6 (19%) | 1 (3%) | 1 (5%) | 0 | 1 (5%) | 1 (5%) |
Undertake (new) activities | 6 (19%) | 15 (47%) | 11 (55%) | 10 (50%) | 2 (10%) | 13 (65%) |
Express love | 6 (19%) | 5 (16%) | 3 (15%) | 3 (15%) | 3 (15%) | 1 (5%) |
Spend (quality) time together | 4 (13%) | 4 (13%) | 3 (15%) | 3 (15%) | 5 (25%) | 3 (15%) |
Spend time apart | 1 (3%) | 3 (9%) | 2 (10%) | 2 (10%) | 3 (15%) | 1 (5%) |
Loving unconditionally/ making compromises | 4 (13%) | 1 (3%) | 4 (20%) | 0 | 8 (40%) | 2 (10%) |
No decline | 2 (6%) | 4 (13%) | 0 | 1 (5%) | 0 | 1 (5%) |
Other | 6 (19%) | 5 (16%) | 5 (25%) | 3 (15%) | 4 (20%) | 2 (10%) |