Table 3.
Modes category | Dysregulated emotion | Dysfunctional regulation strategy | Effects | Therapeutic strategy |
---|---|---|---|---|
Punitive Parent | Exaggerated guilt Shame Contempt Disgust |
Self attack Self devaluation Self punishment Self blame |
Self directed abuse | Chair work to deal and overcome punitive parent mode Imagery rescripting to become aware of emotional needs and help the patient modify the situation in order to adequately meet needs Helping to express emotions and needs using healthy ways to deal with emotions Identification and reappraisal of the mode through cognitive and experiential techniques Active confrontation by the therapist to deal and overcome punitive parent mode using limited reparenting |
Demanding or Critical Parent | Exaggerated sense of responsibility Guilt | Striving for high status Self neglect Humility Efficiency Rigidity Work addiction Lack of spontaneity Lack of pleasant activities |
Chair work to deal and overcome punitive parent mode Imagery rescripting to become aware of emotional needs and help the patient modify the situation in order to adequately meet needs Helping to express emotions and needs using healthy ways to deal with emotions Identification and reappraisal of the mode through cognitive and experiential techniques Active confrontation by the therapist to deal and overcome punitive parent mode using limited reparenting |