1. Having extra-marital affairs |
Douglas has been regularly sleeping with his ex-girlfriend at a local hotel; he has created an elaborate lie to tell his wife, claiming that he has to spend evenings and weekends away from the house doing extra work for his unreasonable boss. |
Some men have extra-marital affairs; they have an ongoing sexual relationship with someone other than their spouse, typically without their spouse’s knowledge, and they frequently engage in deceptive behaviors to cover up these actions. |
2. Having a great memory for names |
Denise memorized the names of all of the students in her 85-person lecture course within the first couple of class meetings and she spent only a little extra time outside of class reviewing their names and photographs. |
Some people have a great memory for names; they can learn to match a large number of names to faces under conditions of limited time, all without seeming to undergo an extraordinary amount of mental effort. |
3. Being nervous in social settings |
Cheryl gets nervous at all of the company dinners and parties she is expected to attend with her colleagues; she worries about whether she sounds intelligent and whether her dress, hair, and makeup look right. |
Some people are nervous in social settings; when they are placed in any situation in which they are expected to mingle with other people, including people they already know, they get worried and anxious. |
4. Staying calm during a competitive situation |
Allen stays calm during his figure skating performance in international competition; he lands all of his difficult jumps perfectly while under tremendous pressure to do well on behalf of his country. |
Some people stay calm during a competitive situation; they are able to perform well despite being under a considerable amount of pressure to live up to the expectations of others and themselves. |
5. Having difficulty focusing on tasks for a long time |
Raymond has difficulty focusing on writing the sales presentations required by his job; he repeatedly stops working to chat with co-workers, shop online, and watch viral YouTube videos. |
Some people have difficulty focusing on tasks for a long time; their attention wanders and they engage in alternative activities that do not advance their work on the task at hand. |
6. Drinking too much |
Martin frequently drinks too many tequila shots; he knows that his system can really only handle one per hour, but always drinks at least three times that amount, vomits, and then has terrible hangovers the next day. |
Some people drink too much; they knowingly ingest more alcohol than their digestive systems can adequately process in a short span of time, and do so more frequently than is advisable for maximum wellbeing. |
7. Tending to be optimistic about the future |
Sharon tends to be optimistic about her career trajectory; she anticipates that her own performance will be excellent and expects to get good job assignments and eventual promotions. |
Some people tend to be optimistic about the future; they approach the world with positive expectations about what events will happen in the future and how those events will unfold. |
8. Being very driven to achieve |
Thomas is very intent on becoming a top executive at his corporation; he works 18-h days and has never missed a work meeting, although he has missed many of his children’s sports games and recitals. |
Some people tend to be very driven to achieve; this involves putting the vast majority of their time, effort, and mental focus on achieving their goals and paying relatively less attention to other areas of life. |