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. Author manuscript; available in PMC: 2017 Apr 10.
Published in final edited form as: J Fam Stud. 2016 Jun 3;23(1):38–61. doi: 10.1080/13229400.2016.1176588

Table 4.

Percentages of parents endorsing supplied justifications for why learning to apologize is important (among subgroup of parents who consistently rated children’s apologies as important)

Transgression type Intentional Moral Accidental Moral Conventional
Learning to apologize is important because (table includes parents who rated apologies as important in all scenarios)
Apologies are part of taking responsibility 86%a 65%c 76%b
Apologies help children understand others 86%a 87%a 30%b
Apologies teach that harming others not okay 82%a 62%c 33%b
Apologies help children admit wrongdoing 76%a 39%b 73%a
Apologies make other people feel better 54%a 64%c 18%b
Apologies help to clear things up 51%a 50%a 36%b
Apologies promote learning about fairness 36%a 15%c 79%b
Children need to know when to apologize 35%a 31%ab 27%b
I look bad if my child doesn’t give one 15%a 8%b 6%b

Note. The parents represented in Table 4 are only those parents who rated children’s apologies as important across all three transgression types.

Differing letters above percentages indicate significant Bonferroni tests (conducted only after initial ANOVAs were significant with alphas set at .005).