Table 4.
Percentages of parents endorsing supplied justifications for why learning to apologize is important (among subgroup of parents who consistently rated children’s apologies as important)
| Transgression type | Intentional Moral | Accidental Moral | Conventional |
|---|---|---|---|
| Learning to apologize is important because… | (table includes parents who rated apologies as important in all scenarios) | ||
| Apologies are part of taking responsibility | 86%a | 65%c | 76%b |
| Apologies help children understand others | 86%a | 87%a | 30%b |
| Apologies teach that harming others not okay | 82%a | 62%c | 33%b |
| Apologies help children admit wrongdoing | 76%a | 39%b | 73%a |
| Apologies make other people feel better | 54%a | 64%c | 18%b |
| Apologies help to clear things up | 51%a | 50%a | 36%b |
| Apologies promote learning about fairness | 36%a | 15%c | 79%b |
| Children need to know when to apologize | 35%a | 31%ab | 27%b |
| I look bad if my child doesn’t give one | 15%a | 8%b | 6%b |
Note. The parents represented in Table 4 are only those parents who rated children’s apologies as important across all three transgression types.
Differing letters above percentages indicate significant Bonferroni tests (conducted only after initial ANOVAs were significant with alphas set at .005).