Grace & Compassion: Becoming aware of what one needs to feel healthy, noticing that everyone moves at a different pace, and integrating the TSY emphasis on doing what is right for your body, generated a level of gentleness with one's body and patience with the process of change. |
“if something is hurting, I think ‘hmm, why is that hurting’...instead of being like that doesn't hurt, I'm just being weak”; “starting to think that I ought to give myself a little credit for all I've survived...I ought to like myself” “appreciate how huge it is that I was able to survive...made me appreciate the level of trauma.” |
Relation: Coming into contact with inner experiences, or a sense of knowing and being attuned to what is occurring within, such as physical sensations and emotions as well as stronger connection in personal relationships. |
“being able to sit with myself [in yoga] allowed me to stay in myself when people tried to be affectionate...there's more closeness in relationships, especially physical comfort”; |
Acceptance: shifts in participants’ levels of acceptance of themselves, their bodies, and their lives; being at peace with life as it was and currently is. |
“a little more comfortable with my body...don't have to be a certain size or weight”; “decided these postures aren't going to be perfect for everyone else and I don't have to be like everyone else to be able to exist.” |
Centeredness: experiencing a quieter mind, less rumination and more time to think, as well as the ability to see alternative perspectives, be less reactive, and feel more positive. |
“[my] identity is [no longer] as a trauma survivor” and “[my] identity is much more whole”; “just letting my mind rest, I'm able to feel renewed and replenished.” |
Empowerment: TSY was a step toward a more active life and a greater sense of control and confidence in one's life as it provided tools for effective action and generated awareness for new possibilities. More engagement in activities also meant a decreased tendency to disconnect when faced with obstacles (e.g., anxiety) that previously prevented involvement. |
“[I have started to] acknowledge and confront... anger about having been abandoned as a child”; “stronger because I have another tool in the toolbox to use; “even though no choice when the flashbacks come, there are more things I can do to kind of work through it...stronger because I have another tool in the toolbox.”; “feel like I have more of an idea that the future is real, and that I can achieve my goals. I'm starting to really care about our future a lot...it feels like it's just all opening up.” |