Table 3.
Husbands’ objection | Participant comments |
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He would like more children | They don’t use family planning because their husbands forbid it or because their husbands want to have children.a |
He is worried about infidelity | Some women don’t [use contraception] because their husbands are very jealous. They can’t because their husband sometimes thinks that because the woman is using a method, she can go with any man.a |
He feels uncomfortable with the method | He didn’t want to [use a condom] because he said he didn’t like it. So, like, the first day we used a condom and he felt uncomfortable. And I told him to get used to it, and it was like that until he got used to it. |
He has concern about infertility | Because he’s scared that maybe one day he is going to want another child and all of a sudden it won’t be possible. He started to tell me “oh no, because that would be injections, but with that you can’t have any children, and I would like to have five children.” |
He has a fear of God | We have thought about using [contraceptive] methods, but at the same time it makes us feel bad and scared, for fear of God … [P] Have you talked about this fear of God with other women? [I] No, with no one, only with my husband … [P] And what does your husband think? [I] He pretty much disagrees … [P] So, do you think you could still use methods, or maybe not? [I] Maybe not. [P] Because your husband is against it because of this fear of God? [I] Uhum, yes, that’s how it is. [P] |
Note: [P] refers to the participant, [I] refers to the interviewer and
refers to paraphrased responses.