Table 1.

Positive perceptions identified by parents: Themes across five studies (Hastings and Taunt 2002: 118).

Pleasure/satisfaction in providing care for the child Child is a source of joy/happiness Sense of accomplishment in having done one’s best for the child Sharing love with the child Child provides a challenge or opportunity to learn and develop Strengthened family and/or marriage Gives a new or increased sense of purpose in life Has led to the development of new skills, abilities or new career opportunities Become a better person (more compassionate, less selfish, more tolerant) Increased personal strength or confidence Expanded social and community networks Increased spirituality Changed one’s perspective on life (clarified what is important in life, more aware of the future) Making the most of each day, living life at a slower pace