Table 3.
Hope/Worry | No. Who Mentioned (Out of 15) | |
---|---|---|
Hopes | Their child will have the best quality of life possible for as long as possible | 10 |
Their child will have as normal a life as possible (e.g., live at home, go to school) | 8 | |
Their child will be liberated from LTV | 6 | |
Their child will be cured (i.e., a miracle) | 6 | |
Medical research will find a cure/therapy | 6 | |
Their child will be free from suffering | 6 | |
Their child can maximize his or her potential | 4 | |
Their child will stay out of the hospital | 2 | |
Providers, family, and friends will agree with and support their decision | 2 | |
Worries | Will the child be comfortable on and tolerate LTV? | 10 |
Will they be able to learn everything necessary to care for the child on LTV? | 6 | |
Will they make a mistake that leads to the child’s death? | 4 | |
Is LTV going to work? | 3 | |
How are they going to talk and eat with a tracheostomy? | 3 | |
The child will not be able to leave the home and go out in the community | 3 | |
Stigmatization | 2 | |
Other people will judge them and their decision | 2 | |
The resulting grief if they decline LTV or limit LTV to NIV | 2 | |
Are they “giving up” on the child if they decline LTV or limit LTV to NIV? | 2 | |
Providers will stop treating other things (e.g., discomfort, infections) if they decline LTV or limit LTV to NIV | 1 | |
What will death be like for the child if they decline LTV or limit LTV to NIV? | ||
How is going to affect their families’ lives? | 1 | |
What is their child going to do when he/she is older and the parents have passed away? | 1 | |
Are they doing the “right” thing? | 1 | |
Are they being selfish? | 1 |
Definition of abbreviations: LTV = long-term ventilation; NIV = noninvasive ventilation.