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. Author manuscript; available in PMC: 2019 Jun 1.
Published in final edited form as: Cult Health Sex. 2017 Sep 5;20(6):658–672. doi: 10.1080/13691058.2017.1368711
Drew: Our rules and agreements have changed over the past couple of years … First we were strictly monogamous, pretty much because we were still trying to learn each other and what the other person was comfortable with, and kind of be aware of that … Once we got to a point where we were comfortable enough to be with other people, we were open to possibly exploring that a little bit.
Jimmy: Yeah, I completely agree. One of the important things at first was establishing our emotional connection with one another. I’m of the belief that you can have an emotional connection with someone and you can have a sexual connection, [but] you can separate the two. Emotion and sex go together with us, but sex with outside partners doesn’t necessarily involve any sort of emotion or feelings towards that person.