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. Author manuscript; available in PMC: 2019 Jun 1.
Published in final edited form as: Cult Health Sex. 2017 Sep 5;20(6):658–672. doi: 10.1080/13691058.2017.1368711
Craig: When we first got together we had a very blunt conversation about, you know, are we the only people? Nathan asked me, ‘Am I the only one that you want to have sex with?’ And vice versa. It’s a conversation that takes courage to have, and moreover to be honest about it with each other … The honesty with that conversation, I think, ultimately brought us closer.
Nathan: Yeah, because he wanted to have a committed, monogamous relationship, and you know, that doesn’t work for me … I believe that there is an absolute psychological and physiological separation between making love to the person that you love – are in love with – and having sex and getting off … And if you’re truly in love and in a relationship, I don’t think that there’s anything that can blur that line really.