| Self-disclosure |
Sharing personal information about oneself |
“Me too! Who likes it wet and cold? Nice sunshine I like the most, even though I do not get a tan.” |
“You have chosen summer. You have now answered four out of sixteen questions.” |
| Use of humor |
Behavior which provokes laughter and provides amusement |
“Oh yes, pizza is great. One time I ate a pizza as big as me.” |
“You prefer pizza. This worked well. Let us continue.” |
| Mutual knowledge |
Sharing knowledge and showing that you know that you share knowledge |
“Me too! They have many more cool shows to choose from. Nevertheless, I have the feeling that I already watched all the shows. But who does not?” |
“Your answer has been recorded. This was the last question.” |
| Content intimacy |
Intimate, emotional, detailed conversation |
“I am really looking forward to Saturday, because then it is my birthday. There will be tasty cake and hopefully many, many presents. What are your plans for Saturday?” |
“Which activity do you choose for Saturday? Note that the unchosen activity has to be done on Sunday.” |
| Continuity |
References to past, ongoing or future conversations |
“We talked about water before. I do not think either one is very great.” |
“Okay, this has been noted. Let us continue!” |
| Relational Continuity Constructional Units |
Behaviors before, during or after an absence to bridge the time apart |
“We will see each other again in a bit. I am already looking forward to carry on with you soon.” |
“After answering the questionnaires, we will continue with another task.” |
