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1) Making you feel at ease
(Introducing him/herself, explaining his/her position, being friendly and warm towards you, treating you with respect; not cold or abrupt)
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2) Letting you tell your ‘story’
(Giving you time to fully describe your condition in your own words; not interrupting, rushing, or diverting you)
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3) Really listening
(Paying close attention to what you were saying; not looking at the notes or computer as you were talking)
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4) Being interested in you as a whole person
(Asking/knowing relevant details about your life, your situation; not treating you as ‘just a number’)
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5) Fully understanding your concerns
(Communicating that he/she had accurately understood your concerns and anxieties; not overlooking or dismissing anything)
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6) Showing care and compassion
(Seeming genuinely concerned, connecting with you on a human level; not being indifferent or ‘detached’)
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7) Being positive
(Having a positive approach and a positive attitude; being honest but not negative about your problems)
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8) Explaining things clearly
(Fully answering your questions; explaining clearly, giving you adequate information; not being vague)
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9) Helping you to take control
(Exploring with you what you can do to improve your health yourself; encouraging rather than ‘lecturing’ you)
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10) Making a plan of action with you
(Discussing the options, involving you in decisions as much as you want to be involved; not ignoring your views)