Table 1.
Types of Self-Regulation Skills
In the Context of Urges to Engage in Addictive Behavior |
In the Context of General Stress |
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Self-Regulation Skill | ||
Acceptance | Allow urge to come and go, rather than fighting it |
Give self permission to feel feelings |
Behavioral Activation | Get involved in an alternative activity that does not involve substances (e.g., clean the house) |
Get involved in a valued activity (spend time with family) or a soothing activity (warm bath) |
Defusion | See thoughts about drug use as just thoughts and not commands |
See thoughts as just thoughts and not facts |
Active Communication | Refuse offer to use or communicate with person(s) regarding use levels (e.g., not drinking) |
Actively communicate with person(s) to resolve a problem or disagreement |
Emotional Awareness | Recognize or label body sensations and emotions related to urge |
Recognize and label emotions |
Exercise | Get involved in moderate-to- vigorous intensity physical activity/exercise to deal with urge (e.g., biking, jogging, weight lifting) |
Get involved in moderate-to- vigorous intensity physical activity/exercise (e.g., biking, jogging, weight lifting) |
Grounding | Focus on sensations of breathing to stay grounded when having urge |
Focus on just one thing, such as breathing, to ground the self |
Cognitive Reappraisal | Remind self about the negative aspects of substance use or the positive aspects of sobriety |
Think about a situation or problem differently/take a new perspective |
Problem Solving | Brainstorm different ways for dealing with urge |
Brainstorm different ways for dealing with a problem or situation |
Seeking Social Support | Reach out to others for support or guidance in dealing with urge |
Reach out to other people for guidance or support |
Self-Compassion | Tell self that it is okay to have urges |
Say kind, supportive things to self |
Spiritual/Religious Coping | Pray or think about faith to deal with urge |
Pray or think about faith |
Stimulus Control | Avoid or leave a situation that triggers urge |
Remove self from a situation/change my environment |
Values Clarification | Remind self of commitment to sobriety or change goal |
Remind self of the bigger picture and important life goals |