Table 2: Collaboration Skills.
Skill | Purpose | Example |
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Invite participation |
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“what experiences have others had when talking with the family?” |
Friendly questions | A respectful way to:
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“Can you explain the thinking behind…?” “What would need to happen for [patient] to reach that goal?” “[Family member] asked me earlier…” |
Seek Permission |
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“Would it be OK if I ask a question?” “Can I ask question about something on a different topic?” |
Kudos |
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“[Nurse’s name] really worked hard to make sure that the family got their questions answered.” |
Yes. And… |
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“I agree that there are many treatment options to explore and I wonder if we might also focus on ensuring [patient’s] comfort while we’re doing so.” |
Support to Disagree |
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“I appreciate your position and can see why addressing these things is important to the patient.” |
(re)Focus on the patient |
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“It looks like we have different perspectives on this complex issue. What do you think [patient] needs right now?” “I know we’re both trying to do what’s right for this family.” |