Thematic Areas |
Respondents (Officials of Non-Governmental Organization that deal with issues of domestic violence) |
Types of violence |
Physical violence: The men use horse wipe belts, buckle and broom on their wives; a women with eight months old pregnancy beaten to a state of unconsciousness hair pulling, slapping, hitting her head against the wall. |
Psychological violence: The men destroy their items of trade; prevents their pregnant wives from receiving antenatal care |
Sexual violence: Marital rape and forced abortion |
Economic violence: The men forcefully collect money from their wives; the men destroy their items of trade; they refuse to give their wives money for food; they refuse to allow her take a job; refuse to pay the children’s school fees and they hide money away from their wives; the women suffer from starvation and lack of maintenance; They make unnecessary financial demands on their wives. |
Triggers of violence |
Lack of sexual attraction |
High poverty rate in state |
Societal norms and values |
They batter for pride |
Patrichial nature of the society |
If she refuse him sex |
Extreme anger |
Controlling behaviour |
Nagging |
Complications of IPV |
Swollen reddish face and eyes; Burns from hot iron and hot water; Open wounds; Vaginal tear and bleeding as a result of marital rape; Insanity; broken bones and teeth; unconsciousness; miscarriages; unwanted pregnancy |
Coping strategies of the victims |
The women prefers to report to their own family, husband’s family, their religious leaders and NGOs |
They also run away from the home |
Some fight back |
Staying in the marriage and accepting it as a way of life |
Very few of the victims report to law enforcement agents |
Solutions to end violence |
Creating family courts in the state to settle family disputes |
Domesticating the violence gender inequality bill in the state |
Translating existing laws and the rights of women to local languages |
Creating employment for the men and women |
Enacting the laws on prohibiting violence against women in the state |
Sensitization to create awareness on the complications of violence on the victims, family and the society |
Organizing behavioural modification seminars for men and women. |