Disconnection and Rejection domain |
Emotional deprivation |
The assumption that others will not meet one’s emotional needs. |
Social isolation |
A sense that one is set apart/different from other people. |
Emotional inhibition |
The tendency to suppress the expression of emotions and to have difficulties relating freely to others. |
Defectiveness/shame |
The assumption that one is full of flaws, and if these are exposed, one would lose the respect or love of others. |
Mistrust |
Distrust in others’ intentions or expected abuse. |
Negativity/pessimism |
The inclination to focus on the negative areas in life, with an expectation that things will end badly. |
Impaired Autonomy and Performance domain |
Dependence/incompetence |
The assumption that one is incapable of handling everyday obligations without substantial assistance from others. |
Failure to achieve |
A conviction that one is a failure in regard to achievements. |
Subjugation |
Surrender of control to other people, due to the fear of negative reactions, usually implying a belief that one’s thoughts and feelings are not important. |
Abandonment |
A feeling of instability in support from significant others. |
Enmeshment |
Over involvement with significant others. |
Vulnerability to harm |
Fear of medical, mental and/or external catastrophes. |
Excessive Responsibility and Standards domain |
Self-sacrifice |
The tendency to prioritize others’ needs ahead of one own needs. |
Unrelenting standards |
The assumption that one must meet one’s own high standards of achievement and behavior. |
Punitiveness |
The assumption that one and others should be disciplined for mistakes. |
Impaired Limits domain |
Entitlement |
A conviction of superiority. |
Approval-seeking |
The tendency to seek approval and connection with other people and to be sensitive to the reactions of other. |
Insufficient self-control |
Challenges with frustration tolerance and self-control. |