Position of receiving love |
8 |
89 |
Experiences of: affection and proximity, received and felt, in terms of physical warmth, devotion, acknowledgment of uniqueness and attention to the person’s needs/lack of affection and proximity from others, in terms of neglectfulness and rejection of affection requests, carried out by the subject. |
Position of giving love |
5 |
164 |
Experiences of: expression, demonstration, granting of affection and proximity to the others, in terms of physical warmth/active forms of rejection and opposition toward the expression of affection and proximity. |
Position of being lovable |
1 |
3 |
Experiences connected to: being and feeling lovable, charming and pleasant, able to receive attention and physical warmth/a sense of intrinsic inability to be seen as lovable, charming, worthy of affection. |
Position of receiving value |
4 |
144 |
Experiences connected to: having been appreciated according to an external criterion or in comparison to a model/having been appreciated because of intrinsic qualities, without referencing an external criterion/having been devalued and negatively judged, with regard to one’s own qualities. |
Position of giving value |
2 |
24 |
Experiences of: actively attributing a qualification to someone based on an external criterion/qualification of others in explicit relation to an external model. |
Position of being valuable |
2 |
26 |
Experiences connected to: self-acknowledgment of qualities and merits/sense of a lack of personal qualities and merits/achievement of esteem, inner talents. |
Position of being subjected to someone’s power |
4 |
131 |
Experiences connected to: having been controlled, bossed around, threatened, by means of actions that require being subjugated/having been raised with a dialogue-based discipline. |
Position of exerting power |
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Experiences of: active control and imposition on the others, threats and situation implying the superiority of the subject toward the others/lack or impossibility to exert active control, imposition on the others. |
Position of personal potential |
1 |
6 |
Experiences connected to: the ability to be oneself and the sense of self-control/lack of the ability to be oneself/self-control, self-discipline. |
Position of receiving freedom |
2 |
102 |
Experiences connected to: having been given space for self-expression, action, thought and self-determination/having been subjected to obligations, constraints, restrictions of one’s own space. |
Position of giving freedom |
– |
– |
Experiences connected to: actions driven by claims of one’s own space for self-determination and expression/granting space for the others’ expression/limitation, through obligations, of the others’ ability to behave and express themselves. |
Position of being free |
4 |
60 |
Experiences connected to: the condition of feeling loosen, untied, in terms of independence and self-sufficiency. |
Position of receiving truth |
– |
– |
Experiences connected to: having acquired, learned, discovered from someone else a reality, a fact, a meaning, a secret/the lack of disclosure of facts, by concealing, omission, deceit or lie. |
Position of giving truth |
7 |
116 |
Experiences connected to: passing down or communicating to others information about the reality, facts, meanings, thought disclosure, confidence/lack of communication of facts, meanings, secrets. |
Position of the sense of self |
5 |
100 |
Experiences connected to: the feeling of being genuine and truthful/the clarification and/or discovery, acquisition, interpretation, awareness of a meaning related to one’s own personal story/the search for authenticity, meaning, through question, reflections. |
Position of receiving justice |
3 |
3 |
Experiences connected to: having received an equal, regular, rightful, treatment, the respect of one’s own rights/having received an unjust, dishonest treatment, with violations of one’s own rights. |
Position of giving justice |
3 |
5 |
Experiences connected to: having granted to others an equal, regular, rightful, treatment and having acknowledged and respected others’ rights/having exerted an unjust and dishonest treatment, with violations of others’ rights. |
Position of ethic and morality |
3 |
8 |
Experiences connected to: the feeling and acknowledgment of being rightful, fair, respectful of ethical and moral standards. |
Affection and Loss |
4 |
42 |
Description of the response to a loss as: grief, lack, deprivation of affection and proximity to the one who passed away/continuity and stability of affection and emotional connection to the one who passed away. |
Value and Loss |
2 |
26 |
Description of the response to a loss as: inner growth, acquire and strengthening of personal attributes, acknowledged to oneself as well as others/annihilation, reduction, and loss of personal attributes. |
Freedom and Loss |
2 |
14 |
Description of the response to a loss or the idea of death as: liberation and emancipation from living constraints placed by oneself or others/absolute limitation and insurmountable frontier. |
Power and Loss |
2 |
7 |
Description of the response to a loss or the idea of death as: an overwhelming event, an explicit or implicit threat that imposes itself ultimately controlling one’s life and/or put an end to all/annihilation of both one’s own potential and the possibility to be oneself/a chance for restoring personal attributes. |
Truth and Loss |
2 |
2 |
Description of the response to a loss or the idea of death as: acknowledgment of the sense of the event/search or discover of new contents and meanings. |
Justice and Loss |
2 |
– |
Description of the response to a loss or the idea of death as: fairness, righteousness, logical consequence, validity of the event/iniquity of the event/liberation, compensation for previous situations. |
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