Affiliative-positive |
You taught your son to ride the bike and he came to thank you with a hug. |
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You and your mom sat on the porch and talked for a long time about old times. |
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You learned that your mother won a cooking contest and was very happy. |
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You put together your old pictures from childhood and made an album for your mother. |
Nonaffiliative-positive |
You delivered a beautiful speech and the audience stood up to applaud you. |
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You went to a rock concert of your favorite band and they invited you to the stage. |
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You were interested in someone and she/he made some nice remarks about you. |
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You made some remarks in a meeting and your boss was impressed. |
Affiliative-negative |
You were distracted and lost your young child in the park. |
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You went to a family meeting in which your parents announced their divorce. |
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You forgot your wedding anniversary and your spouse got very disappointed. |
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You found out that your dad was broke and had just lost his job. |
Nonaffiliative-negative |
You were blamed for a problem that was not your fault and lost your job. |
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You met acquaintances and realized that you were the only one unemployed. |
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You went to a meeting at work and your boss publicly criticized your mistakes. |
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You hired an employee and later she/he sued you for no apparent reason. |
Neutral |
You took a street bus close to your home and handed your ticket to the driver. |
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You ordered some items from the drugstore and someone delivered them to you. |
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You got some batteries in a local store and paid the cashier in cash. |
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You went to have lunch and headed to a nearby restaurant with your co-workers. |