Table 5.
Category | Keep going and holding on to life as usual [19, 20, 27–29, 33–35, 37–41, 43, 47–50, 52, 54, 57, 58, 61, 62, 64–66, 68, 70–76, 78, 80–82, 85, 90, 91, 93, 94, 97, 98] |
Adapting and adjusting to the demands from the situation [19, 20, 27, 28, 30, 32, 35–41, 43–50, 52–57, 59–64, 68, 70, 72–75, 77–83, 85–91, 93, 94, 96–98] |
Accepting the situation [20, 33, 36–38, 41, 43, 47, 48, 50, 51, 53, 56, 57, 62, 64, 68–70, 72, 74, 75, 80–82, 85, 91, 92, 97] |
Avoiding strategies [27, 31, 38, 39, 42, 43, 47, 49, 57, 71, 72, 86, 89, 92, 94] |
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Sub-categories |
- Preserving identity - Normalising the situation - Contributing to society |
- Taking control and compensating - Reframing identity. |
- Position in life | - |
Condensed meaning units |
Preserving identity Living life according to one’s core values [47]. Good memories of childhood and adult life confirms one’s position/identity [37]. Holding on to the existing self-concept [38]. Remembering and reminding herself of who she was, her strengths and characteristics [39]. Stories and memories from the past helped preserve the person they felt themselves to be [39]. Holding on to their roles in valuable relationships [40]. Holding on to identity makes it able to sustain and support a restricted self [47]. Narrating memories of past achievement as positive aspects of life [57]. Previous occupations were a manifest as examples of competence [98]. Using happy memories for comfort in the present situation [75]. Drawing on past roles and status as a reminder of who they were in the present, despite their new and “strange territory” [78]. Asserting strength, they once had, to manage this period of their life [78]. Making reference to working roles that were undertaken in the past [91]. Identifying personality and coping styles to meet the future [28]. Relating stories of taking initiative to preserve their faith and control their lives [85]. Having survived an aggressive cancer makes dementia “just another setback” [91]. Normalising the situation Carry on as normal. Maintaining normality [34]. Keep telling myself that none of this is important [39]. Using a lot of energy to maintain a normal situation in daily life and preserving hope and willpower [85]. Not telling anybody about dementia, hoping to be seen as before [82]. Making extra efforts to behave according to the norms to avoid problems [73]. Normalization of memory loss decrease worry [50]. Normalizing the experience of dementia by comparing one-selves to others [70]. Explaining memory difficulties in term of old age [70]. Explaining giving up occupations as losing interest in them or being too old for them [98]. Contributing to society Trying to be satisfied or finding ways of being useful [37]. Being a mother continued to be important [48]. Use remaining abilities and contribute to the household [48]. Appreciating the value of still being able to do things and function [48]. Being engaged in volunteer work to feel useful and make a contribution to society [72]. Being someone to others, and oneself in a social context, by giving homemade items [98]. Contributing to the family [61]. Finding purpose in life by crochet baby clothes to donate to hospitals [90]. |
Taking control and compensating Mobilizing resources by accessing external services and friends and families [49]. Falling back on religion or life-values in times of stress as sources of comfort [47]. Doing life-long hobbies and habits to provide enjoyment and distraction from worries [52]. Using strategies to avoid mistakes due to memory loss [54]. Maintaining meaningful activities to cope with symptoms of dementia and the feeling of control [50]. Using old photographs and recounting stories to keep familiar ties and maintaining the experience in a socially coherent context [98]. Leisure activity counteract changes by keeping an active mind and give meaning in life [50]. Develop strategies to compensate for impairment [36]. Spending time and effort in planning and organising to meet difficulties better [36]. Writing notes to remember [40]. Using coping mechanisms trying to improve memory by cognitive exercise [47]. Using internet support groups to get knowledge of dementia and find ideas to manage changes [49]. Reduce household and external activities to manage stress [52]. Doing physical activity to delay deterioration [57]. Using external memory aid, structure of daily routine and medication to cope [70]. Using technology to provide “meaning and rescue” to each day [79]. Stopping certain occupations to avoid having accidents and misadventures [98]. Managing with assistance [57] Escaping emptiness and boredom with TV, creating the feeling that there is someone else at home [89]. Accessing groups with other people with dementia to be proactive in managing dementia [83]. Being proactive to contact home health care nurse, because she knew help will be needed [88]. Going to the gym as an active step to develop a social attribute, so that others do not define him excessively by his dementia [91]. Maintaining meaningful activities to cope with symptoms of dementia and the feeling of control [50]. Important with familiarity with place to perform activities independently [35]. Holding on to autonomy, defend themselves against the concerns of their partner and others [40]. Having alternative plans if something doesn’t go as planned [49]. Be in control of own situation by deciding who to inform about the diagnosis [80]. Continuing daily routine helps staying in control of the situation and their identity [93]. Not accepting being talked over or about, but taking steps to educate others about dementia [61]. Among some, music was an active, enriching and embedded part of their everyday lives and it enhanced their sense wellbeing [87]. Involvement in music gave people with dementia a degree of empowerment and control over their own lives [87]. Reframing identity. Redefining self [38]. Affirming one’s own identity and worth, by comparing with those who is less fortunate [37]. Comparing with others in same situation affirmed own approach to dementia [63]. Reoffering identity and place in the world, by deciding whether or not to accept help [48]. Making decisions help reaffirm a sense of self [48]. Taking responsibility for own personhood or relate closely to other members of the group of persons with dementia, in effort to bolster personhood [78]. Being a fighter [78]. Construct new self-narratives allowing to face the future with a certain equanimity [81]. Hope was balanced with the reality of a life well lived, and satisfaction of life, compared with those who was worse off [97]. Defining his role at a walking group to be a helper for others, whose needs are greater than his own [91]. Telling comprises a key element in the process of coming to terms with a diagnosis and co-constructing different sense of self [96]. |
Position in life Highlighting things one can still do [33]. Maintaining a positive view of oneself [33]. Experiencing hope by having a positive focus on life and abilities to change [50]. Looking forward, don’t look backward [43]. Positive attitudes towards their present and future [50]. Focusing on the present day and positive things in life [80]. Believing that it is not what happens to you that matters, it’s how you think about it [72]. Live in the moment, enjoy life [50]. Referring to dementia as a problem, not the end of the world. Don’t think about it [91]. Positive attitude give hope and counteract losses [50]. Focusing on remaining abilities [63]. Shift focus from dementia to living well [62]. Remaining positive and focus on the possibilities in life, rather than the losses [80]. Not letting dementia take over my life [68]. Putting some effort into it, and put some things behind you [75]. Planning ahead helped to accept the future with a sense of hope [50]. Hoping for the future, regardless the prospect [37]. Develop ways of managing the thoughts about the future/ Finding meaning in the future [38]. |
An active resistance to change by refusing to adapt or refusing to accept help [49]. Keep telling myself that none of this is important [39]. Trying not to think about moving to nursing home [41]. Resistance to make changes because it would mean acceptance of the progression of the decease [49]. Resisting change to fight stigma and threats of identity [49]. Avoid thinking of the future [55]. Taking no initiative [89]. Push dementia away [27]. Linguistic strategies to create emotional distance [27] Avoidance strategies like withdrawing and concealing difficulties [lead to isolation] [27]. Preventing themselves from thinking about the future [38]. Avoiding the influence of others who are further in the disease progression [72]. Holding on to the moment to protect themselves for the dreaded future [42]. Keeping occupied [71]. Being more active and do things as distraction [94]. Forget about the house and start a new life [in nursing home] [92]. Talking about others to get a distance between the dementia and oneself [47]. |