Romantic Perpetration |
1. Get angry at him/her |
29 / 37% |
22 / 26% |
25 / 24% |
9 / 5% |
10 / 6% |
2 / 1% |
3 / 1% |
2. Criticize him/her or his/her ideas |
47 / 38% |
27 / 25% |
15 / 18% |
6 / 9% |
3 / 6% |
1 / 3% |
1 / 1% |
3. Ignore him/her when he/she tries to talk to you |
56 / 52% |
23 / 25% |
14 / 14% |
4 / 4% |
2 / 3% |
0 / 1% |
1 / 1% |
4. Give him/her a lecture about how he/she should behave |
55 / 49% |
18 / 19% |
11 / 14% |
6 / 8% |
5 / 5% |
2 / 3% |
3 / 2% |
5. Boss him/her around a lot |
68 / 63% |
16 / 19% |
8 / 10% |
3 / 4% |
3 / 2% |
1 / 1% |
1 / 1% |
6. Hit, push, grab or shove him/her |
83 / 78% |
10 / 12% |
4 / 6% |
1 / 3% |
1 / 1% |
1 / 0% |
0 / 0% |
7. Not listen to him/her or pay attention to him/her |
74 / 64% |
15 / 19% |
6 / 9% |
2 / 4% |
1 / 2% |
1 / 1% |
1 / 1% |
8. Insult, swear at him/her, or call him/her bad names |
75 / 70% |
15 / 16% |
6 / 8% |
2 / 3% |
1 / 2% |
1 / 1% |
0 / 0% |
9. Tell him/her that you are right and he/she is wrong about things |
53 / 44% |
18 / 21% |
12 / 12% |
7 / 10% |
5 / 6% |
2 / 4% |
3 / 3% |
10. Threaten to hurt him/her by hitting him/her with your fist or an object |
89 / 81% |
7 / 11% |
2 / 5% |
1 / 2% |
1 / 1% |
0 / 0% |
0 / 0% |
11. When you are together, you spend more time on your phone than with him/her |
56 / 57% |
25 / 21% |
10 / 10% |
4 / 6% |
2 / 1% |
1 / 3% |
2 / 2% |
Romantic Support |
1. Ask him/her for their opinion about an important matter |
4 / 7% |
3 / 4% |
9 / 12% |
9 / 14% |
23 / 22% |
21 / 19% |
31 / 22% |
2. Listen carefully to his/her point of view |
2 / 5% |
0 / 1% |
3 / 4% |
6 / 7% |
15 / 19% |
26 / 26% |
48 / 38% |
3. Let him/her know you really care about them |
2 / 5% |
2 / 3% |
5 / 5% |
5 / 9% |
13 / 17% |
19 / 22% |
54 / 39% |
4. Act supportive and understanding toward him/her |
4 / 8% |
1 / 3% |
2 / 3% |
5 / 6% |
8 / 13% |
24 / 26% |
56 / 41% |
5. Tell him/her you love them |
23 / 21% |
5 / 6% |
5 / 7% |
4 / 7% |
6 / 9% |
12 / 14% |
45 / 36% |