Table 4.
Theme | Youth | Parent |
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Gender-based parental role | “I am a man and I don’t want to be the ‘biological mother’ of anything, that is why I am not preserving my eggs.” “I would prefer as a trans woman to give birth to my children and be able to have them as a combination with my partner, not have someone else involved as a surrogate or egg donor.” “Me not being able to have kids myself was hard for me cuz if I had a kid I would want to be the one to carry my child and because I can’t do that I just chose not to have kids.” |
“My son has no desire to have children, and if he does decide in the future, his female partner would carry the child.” |
Age and maturity level required to make FP decisions | “I feel like I’m too young to really make ‘official’ and ‘final’ decisions regarding fertility” | “....More information to the child, not sure they can make a decision of that magnitude as a teenager or younger” “Most important is how crucial it would be to my child. Unsure whether he is mature enough to make fully-informed decision on his own.” “....If it was a concern to them (which it is hard to make a 15 realize they may one day want this) then I think it would be a high priority in my eyes.” “I am not sure my child understands that she(he) may not be able to have children in the future. I think at 14 she is not ready to make that decision just yet. 14 is young to be thinking about having children.” |
Adoption as a preferred or alternative option for parenthood | “I strongly think that adopting a child is just as magical and wonderful as having one, if not more so.” “I have never been interested in having biological children. When I was a small child I instantly knew that I would choose adoption... Fortunately for me, the dysphoria is barely an issue for me because even if I were a cisgender male I’d still adopt children instead.” |
“My child, from a young age, has expressed interest in adopting children only. This is a good fit with their gender transition, so as a family we decided not to pursue fertility preservation at all....” |