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. Author manuscript; available in PMC: 2022 Apr 1.
Published in final edited form as: Arch Sex Behav. 2020 Jul 23;50(3):1087–1105. doi: 10.1007/s10508-020-01783-y

Table 2.

Sexual agreement characteristics of 278 male couples who had formulated sexual agreements, United States, April 2016-June 2017.

Characteristic n (%) n (%) n (%) n (%)
Dyadic-level Total (n=278) Two gay-identifying men (n=234) One or two bisexual-identifying mena (n=33) One “other”- identifying and one gay-identifying man or two “other”-identifying menb (n=ll)
Type of sexual agreement Closed (i.e. sex with outside partners was not allowed) 180 (64.75) 155 (66.24) 21 (63.64) 4 (36.36)
 Open (i.e. sex with outside partners was allowed)c 79 (28.42) 64 (27.35) 8 (24.24) 7 (63.64)
 Discordant responses 19 (6.83) 15 (6.41) 4 (12.12) 0 (0.00)
Verbal explicitness of sexual agreement
 Spoken 205 (73.74) 173 (73.93) 23 (69.70) 9 (81.82)
 Unspoken (i.e. assumed or understood) 24 (8.63) 21 (8.97) 3 (9.09) 0 (0.00)
 Discordant responses 49 (17.63) 40 (17.09) 7 (21.21) 2 (18.18)
Duration of sexual agreement
 <3 years 172 (61.87) 142 (60.68) 23 (69.70) 7 (63.64)
 ≥3 years 89 (32.01) 77 (32.91) 9 (27.27) 3 (27.27)
 Discordant responses 17 (6.12) 15 (6.41) 1 (3.03) 1 (9.09)
Individual-level Total (n=556) Gay-identifying men (n=507) Bisexual-identifying men (n=37) “Other”-identifying mend (n=12)
Ever broken their sexual agreement
 Yese 68 (12.23) 61 (12.03) 6 (16.22) 1 (8.33)
 No 488 (87.77) 446 (87.97) 31 (83.78) 11 (91.67)
Believed that partner had ever broken their sexual agreement
 Yesf 66 (11.87) 58 (11.44) 6 (16.22) 2 (16.67)
 No 490 (88.13) 449 (88.56) 31 (83.78) 10 (83.33)
a

Includes 28 couples comprised of one bisexual- and one gay-identifying man, 1 couple comprised of one bisexual- and one “other” identifying man, and 4 couples comprised of two bisexual-identifying men.

b

Includes 10 couples comprised of one “other”- and one gay-identifying man, and 1 couple comprised of two “other’-identifying men.

c

Includes 73 couples in which sex with outside partners was allowed with certain restrictions, 3 couples in which sex with outside partners was allowed without any restrictions, and 3 couples who provided discordant responses with respect to restrictions.

d

Includes 11 queer, and 1 questioning.

e

Includes 33 who disclosed breaking their sexual agreement to their partner, and 35 who did not disclose breaking their sexual agreement to their partner.

f

Includes 21 who were correct about their partner having previously broken their sexual agreement, and 45 who were incorrect about their partner having previously broken their sexual agreement.