Directed |
"I want to know all about my condition and treatment process" (“John”, 87) |
Being Informed (All the details) |
Decision Making |
"I would prefer that I have control in decision making process" (“Brett”, 52) |
Shared Decisions: Health Team (A say in every decision) |
"Most my family know what I want. Respect my decision. Go along with my decisions." (“Jim”, 76) |
SDM Flexibility (Do exactly what I’ve said) |
Family/Friend Involvement |
"I want my family around me, soft classical music. Have comfortable area for my family around me." (“Geoff”, 86) |
Bedside Company (Surrounded by loved ones) |
"It is important that my family is aware of my health condition." (“Julie”, 69) |
Sharing Information (Know everything) |
"Quality is more important than quantity of time" (“Bette”, 92) |
Quantity vs Quality of Life (Quality > Quantity) |
Treatment Care |
"I remember my husband's EOL and I don't want to be in that situation, in and out of the hospital 3 times and it was unpleasant" (“Becca”, 82) |
Treatment Care (Overly aggressive care) |
"I want it to be pain free and want to be at home at the end-of-life" (“John”, 87) |
Death Location (At home/LTC) |
Emergent |
"I just want to thank them for doing their best to help me" (“Martha”, 68) |
Saying Thank-You |
Interpersonal Communication |
"Saying good bye to the ones that I love" (“Ellen”, 88) |
Saying Good-bye |
"last rights" (“Mary”, 76) |
Deathbed Religious Rituals |
Religious & Cultural |
"[I want to be sure to say] that I am leaving this life here to be with my Saviour, Jesus, who loves and cares for us all." (“Luke”, 88) |
Valuing Heaven |
"making sure my will is in order and my finances will go to my oldest son for emergencies" (“Jane”, 70) |
Estate Planning |
Post-Mortem Preparations |
"No memorial service" (“Stuart”, 81) |
Funeral Planning |